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A Tribute to Father’s on Father’s Day

A Tribute to Father’s on Father’s Day

June-16-2019 | Michelle Wilson, Mari Davis Wagner and Lisa Hiller

whitney and father june 2018 - A Tribute to Father’s on Father’s DayMothers may be the most vocal front line when it comes for advocating with a child who has a chronic illness like autoimmune encephalitis (AE), but Fathers are often the rock.  Our daughter Whitney has had AE for at least the last 10 years but was only diagnosed about a year and a half ago.  Since Whitney has received treatment for her AE, her cognitive skills have greatly improved, and she even has a part-time job now, something we couldn’t have dreamed of just 2 years ago.

During the worst of Whitney’s AE, which involved psychosis so severe she tried to take her life several times because of command hallucinations, my husband was the rock. We took turns sleeping so someone was always up with Whitney.  We had to do this for nearly 2 years until the psychiatrist tried clozapine, which finally worked.  All the other anti psychotics either made Whitney worse or didn’t work at all. No one could figure out why because back then, hardly anyone was aware of the link between AE and psychosis. Whitney even had apparent homicidal thoughts.  My husband urged me to lock our bedroom door when it was my time to sleep as he found Whitney staring at me while I slept more than once.

My husband stood by during Whitney’s screaming fits, which sometimes went on for hours.  Sometimes Whitney would start screaming at the top of her lungs while we were driving, threatening to jump out of the car because the voices kept saying we would crash. Awful doesn’t begin to describe it.  And still my husband stood by, helping where he could, never wavering.

Fathers are truly the unsung heroes in families that have children with AE.  For that, I say Bravo!

~Michelle Wilson

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Mari’s Father


I have AE, it’s been a little more than 2 years since I was diagnosed after having seizures at work. I want to honor my father this Father’s Day. It was him who taught me that hard work paid off, he taught me how to drive, got me jobs when I needed them in the time between high school and college. He gave me the gift of passing down his knowledge on one of my favorite things- gardening. My parents have helped stand by me with my husband as I have struggled to recover from this awful, no good, very bad days illness. Happy Father’s Day Dad

I also honor my husband Geoff Davis who has been an amazing Father. When I got dick he became the strength and source of comfort for our children as well as making sure I was always heading in the right direction. Without these two men I’d have been lost. So Happy Father’s Day to two men who best know how to be Fathers. I am blessed to have you both in my life.

~Mari Davis Wagner


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Our Dad….Where do we start?  He’s our hero.  He makes us laugh and has made us the strong girls we are today.  Da, we love you so much!  Even on your bad days.  If this illness has taught us one thing,  it’s that the love you have for your family can get us through anything!  You really are our special Dad and someone your girls are proud to look up to.  XXX.   For Terry Hiller our Daddy  ~ Lisa Hiller, Lollys Lollol, Louise Hiller



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